I realize that with a title like that, I might have offended some people right off the bat. I am not racist or discriminatory toward any group of people, and racial diversity doesn't bother me at all. However, as nice as it is to have so many different people living together, it can obviously pose some problems. I moved to Toronto three years ago, and the first thing I noticed in my school was the racial and religious diversity. It didn't bother, nor did it make me happy; it was just different.
I began to notice some conflicts rooted in diversity in civics class when we were discussing human rights issues involving race. I found myself debating with my teacher on every issue. She strongly believed that the people in each case were discriminated against, and that the Canadian government wasn't holding true to the section of the Canadian charter of human rights which states that every citizen has the right to practice and express their own religion. I strongly believe that every human should believe what they want to believe, even if I don't agree with everything they practice. However, the Canadian charter of human rights also states that it is every Canadian's human right to not have their own rights violated. As you might see, this can bring up some sticky situations, which I will provide in examples.
Pearson Airport Dress Code: Rules vs. Rights
In civics class we read about a woman who worked at Pearson International Airport in the customs area. The standard uniform dress code at the airport for women stated that a female employee had the choice of wearing either the issued pants or knee-length skirt, neither of which were remotely revealing. A Muslim woman who worked at the airport unhappily wore pants for five years until she finally had enough, and sewed her own skirt out of a similar material to the uniform bottoms. She went seven months before her new uniform caught the eye of her manager. She was told that her skirt was not part of the uniform, and she had to wear either the issued pants or skirt. She refused to change out of her skirt, and stated that she did not like having to wear a long skirt, but it was "her religion." As a result, she was suspended from her job indefinitely until she either quit or wore the standard uniform.
This was the part when my civics teacher began to voice her opinion that this woman was denied her human rights. It is true, this woman was technically deprived of practicing her beliefs, but if it were that simple, there wouldn't be such heated controversy over the topic. While this woman was wearing her homemade skirt she was practicing her religion, but at the same time, she was breaking the dress code of the airport's uniform, despite the fact that her skirt was more modest than what the rules called for. It might seem silly to make a fuss over one of the employees basically extending the length of their skirt, but this woman went and modified her uniform without asking permission, which is obviously against the rules. It might be tempting to want to just let the issue slide and allow the woman to wear her lengthened skirt, but what happens when you start making exceptions to the rules? More people come in demanding that they modify their uniform to fit their religious beliefs, and the airport can't really defend themselves anymore because they made exceptions in the past.
"If you let that woman wear her own skirt to work, then I should be allowed to wear my ceremonial top hat to work."
It sounds ridiculous when I put it that way, but it's true. When exceptions are made for one person, other people are going to start demanding that exceptions be made for them too. If that happens, then pretty soon there won't be a standard uniform.
In my personal opinion, I don't understand why this woman took the job in the first place, when she was aware that she had to wear a uniform that didn't align with her religion.
Man Not Allowed to Bring Ceremonial Dagger into Court
The reasons why you wouldn't let someone bring a knife to court seem obvious. Forget the long skirt; a knife? In the Sikh religion, practitioners wear a ceremonial knife around their neck called a kirpan, and it must be worn at all times along with four other articles. I don't mind if a person chooses to wear a turban or a cross to express their religious beliefs. Religious people are very closely-knit to their practices, but I start to raise an eyebrow when the sacred articles that people wear can inflict harm on others. From what I have seen, the Sikh religion and its people seem peaceful enough that I could trust them when they tell me that their kirpan is a religious symbol, and is prohibited from being unsheathed. On the other hand, even if a wearer of the knife has good intentions, we don't know that.
A man several years ago was denied entry into the Calgary courthouse because he was wearing a kirpan. When he was searched and screened before entering, he was told that he must leave his kirpan at security while in the courthouse, and could have it back when he left. The man argued for about ten minutes before leaving, and ended up not showing up to court to testify as a witness to a car accident. This upset the man, who said his human rights were being violated because he was not allowed to express his religion.
Kirpan
It is true that the man was not allowed to wear one of his religious garments, but I hardly think it's fair to say his freedom of religious expression was being oppressed when he was allowed to wear his turban into the courthouse. If he was allowed to wear his turban, not to mention his Kangha (comb), Kara (iron bangle), and Kachera (underwear) into the building, but not his Kirpan (knife), I find it difficult to nod my head in understanding when he says his religious beliefs are being shunned. The reason why he couldn't bring his kirpan into court was clearly stated by security: no matter the symbolism or title that the ceremonial dagger holds, it is still a knife, and while I am sure the man in this case did not intend to do harm to anyone, we can't say that about everyone. Religion has brought peace and enlightenment to many people, however, it has also being exploited quite gruesomely countless times in the past and the present by people who would be willing to use religion as leverage to get what they want. Basically, this individual was not dangerous, but how do we know for certain what a person's intentions are? If this man was let into court and ended up not harming anyone, it wouldn't seem like a big deal, but then that would mean that anyone could enter the courthouse with a kirpan from now on, since it wouldn't be fair to make special exceptions to certain people. While the likelihood of this happening is slim to none, what would happen if a person dressed as a practitioner of the Sikh religion so they could get a dagger into the courthouse and harm someone? It would cause a real mess of pointing fingers at whose fault it was, controversy pertaining to the law that allows ceremonial daggers being let into the courthouse, and not to mention that it would taint the image of the Sikh religion greatly, based on the fact that many ignorant people confuse the religion with Islam, and would label turban wearers as terrorists. Besides, the man wasn't asked to abandon wearing the dagger for eternity. He was asked to remove his knife while he entered a high security area where government officials were, and would get it back when he left. I understand that the kirpan is to be worn at all times, but can no exceptions be made at all? While it is in the Canadian charter of human rights that every person has the freedom to express their religion, it is also in the charter that every person should not be subjected to cruel treatment from others, which includes getting stabbed. No one would expect a person to be stabbed in a courthouse by a person bearing a kirpan, understandably, but expectations and reality are two very different things that should not be underestimated.
I will state for the last time that I have no issue with the religious community as a whole. My issue is what I feel is the over-accommodation of Canada to the rules of certain religions, as I have explained. When people decide to move to Canada, they should not expect the country to change for them, and just the same would apply if the reverse were to happen. If I decided to move to another country, I would take the time to learn their language, customs, and laws, and follow them. If I didn't agree with the culture and lifestyle of the country I was considering moving to, I wouldn't move there, rather than move in and expect everyone to change for me. In conclusion, I believe that every Canadian has the right to practice and express their religious beliefs, but if doing so has the potential to infringe on other people's human rights, then it is not okay.
Topic: Misogyny I would like to make it clear from the start that I am not a "femi-nazi," as I have heard some anti-feminists say. In fact, I feel that I am more of a humanist; someone who believes that all human beings, men included, deserve to be treated better than a doormat. In this case however, I will be discussing a rather disturbing website that is the very definition of misogyny, and when I use the word “misogyny” I mean it. Yesterday when I logged onto my computer and checked my email, I got a message from Change.org, a website where you can participate in signing, sharing, and creating your own petitions. I received a petition to prevent an American writer and pickup artist RooshV from giving his hate-speeches (directed toward women) in Montreal and Toronto. I had received petitions about similar issues, such as an artist who wrote music with lyrics advocating the rape of women, which I did sign, but didn't pay much regard to otherwise. When I read the petitioner's description of RooshV, I found it almost hard to believe, so I checked out the website myself. First, let me introduce you to this fine gentleman: "...people there, sometimes they pay sixty percent in taxes, and I feel sorry for the men. They pay taxes so high for women so ugly..."
According to his "About" page, his community beliefs are rooted in neo-masculinism, which consists of some of the following beliefs...
1. Men and women are genetically different, both physically and mentally. Sex roles evolved in all mammals. Humans are not exempt.
2. Men will opt out of monogamy and reproduction if there are no incentives to engage in them.
3. Past traditions and rituals that evolved alongside humanity served a net benefit to the family unit.
4. Testosterone is the biological cause for masculinity. Environmental changes that reduce the hormone’s concentration in men will cause them to be weaker and more feminine.
5. A woman’s value significantly depends on her fertility and beauty. A man’s value significantly depends on his resources, intellect, and character.
6. Elimination of traditional sex roles and the promotion of unlimited mating choice in women unleashes their promiscuity and other negative behaviors that block family formation.
7. Socialism, feminism, cultural Marxism, and social justice warriorism aim to destroy the family unit, decrease the fertility rate, and impoverish the state through large welfare entitlements.
So basically, my only purpose in life is to look attractive for men and reproduce, and by having the freedom to get a job and think for myself, I am destroying "family formation." I think this man was born in the wrong era; go to any time in human history past 60 years ago and he would have gotten all the inequality he could ask for. I don't even know where to begin. Since literally all of it is jaw-dropping offensive and ignorant, I'm just going to jump right in and share with you some of my favourite quotes from his articles.
"Women have been quiet in the history of the world not because of male privilege, but because they’re not designed to achieve. The advantage that nature has given them concerns solely their appearance." Yes, because it is embedded into a female's genetic code to be useless.
"As any game practitioner knows, a woman does not respect you if you respect her. " Every woman loves a man who doesn't respect her. Seriously, if you want to get all the ladies, just treat them like dirt. Works like a charm. "When a woman leans over the masculine side, she’s praised as independent, ambitious, and strong." An independent and strong woman? Oh, you mean a masculine woman. "Once she admits to being a feminist, someone who believes in female superiority at the cost of male well-being, she no longer exists in your world." Um, no. I think you need to look up the definition of feminism, Roosh. If a woman believes in female superiority at the cost of male well-being, she is sexist, not a feminist. "A woman can do anything a man can do, as long as a man first shows her how.” I would like to thank my dad for showing me how to apply a tampon. "Within every woman on this planet, regardless of her education or background, is a bitch, a cunt, a slut, a golddigger, a flake, a cheater, a backstabber, a narcissist, and an attention whore." Is that it? I think you missed a few things. "Make rape legal if done on private property. I propose that we make the violent taking of a woman not punishable by law when done off public grounds." Splendid idea! And while we're at it, we should make homicide, arson, and drug trafficking legal too! That will surely make crime rates go down as well. Nobody would actually listen to what he is saying, right? Wrong. He has over 14k followers on twitter, and an equally vicious following. The comment sections on RooshV's articles are as equally offensive as the articles themselves, so you can take a gander at them if you feel like losing faith in humanity.
Unfortunately, the petition did not prevent RooshV from giving his hate speech in Montreal, and I am guessing it won't prevent him from coming to Toronto. I'll be honest, I feel disgusted just to know that this man will be stepping foot in the same city as me. Below is the video of his "historic victory." Him and all fifty to seventy men in that conference room really showed me. This 5000 view You Tube video is sure to go down in the annals of history. RooshV can try all he wants to spread his hate in Canada, and he can believe that his campaign here is "historic" and "victorious," but the fact that 35 000 Canadians, including many government officials such as the mayor of Montreal were against his hate-speeches is all that needs to be said.
As hateful and oppressive toward women as RooshV and his followers are, I don't hate men, because I actually treat people as individuals instead of clumping them all together and make sweeping judgments about them. I believe there are good men and women who understand that what is between their legs doesn't define who they are, and then there are, well, the others....